- Any healthy diet (based around veggies) can work; you just need to find real foods you can enjoy eating, day in and day out.
- Find strength training exercises that are fun, make you feel kick-ass, and get the results you wouldn’t want to live without.
- Do cardio that you would do for fun even if it wasn’t good for you.
Welcome to Awesomeville
I’ve been MIA from my blog for a little while, for a few reasons:
- I’ve been launching a website for ‘How to Come Alive‘ (see last post)
- I’ve been hitting it hard in terms of exercise, eating right, cleaning, and novel writing (more on that soon)
- I wasn’t sure what to write
WHaaa-aat? Yes, I felt clearly this spring that I and my posts were changing. It was time for the dawn of a new era. I first thought I should just power through, and do what had worked before, what I had enjoyed immensely since launching this site three years ago.
But instead, I took a step back. Till I was ready, renewed, excited — till now.
Because part of the slow-up was that I too — in my life — had hit a wall and now had to change.
My ‘perfect year’, which started on ‘Black Friday’ 2014, now has moved into Phase Two — starting May 1st, I have gone paleo for six months, am exercising a bunch, have plans to clean the whole house and give away a ton of stuff, and am moving forward with my writing.
And I have been following the idea of ‘What if THIS is the defining moment of my life?’ Up or down, yes or no — the life I’ve dreamed of or a sad mirrored distortion of my hopes and plans.
I’ve also been on a success streak this year —
- My sister Sarah and I got our first tattoos
- We finished the state park ‘climbers club’
- We started cleaning the whole house
- I trained Sarah so she could join me on the Twilight Gambler Fun Ride (a 34 mile cycle ride) for the first time and she finished with no problem.
So these small successes propelled me forward. I asked myself — what’s next that I want to accomplish? The answer was: I want to reach my ideal shape/weight/strength. Oh, I’ve been improving, but like a lot of us, I’d have ‘big plans’ that didn’t quite happen in the eating right department. So I decided that I’d use the successes of this year to build a ‘perfect shape’ plan.
And it’s working.
It’s also one of the hardest things I’ve ever done — but that doesn’t bother me one bit because I look great, feel great, and can’t wait to see where the next day finds me.
Now, you may want the details — but you may already know them. You may have heard them your whole life.
That’s right: exercise and eating right.
I know I’ve heard them my whole life.
So what’s different? Focus. Like I said, absolutely-defining-moment-of-my-life. I’m not trying to make this work in addition to everything else, this is the whole fucking show. My main goal right now is Perfect Shape. Everything else is a hobby, an interest. Every day I want to be better at the end of the day than the day before. And this goal is super-important because, aside from health and happiness, it will prove my ready-aim-fire planning success at one of the biggest goals I’ve ever taken on, a goal a lot of people never reach. And when I reach that goal . . .
I’ll be ready for THE defining goal of my life, my reason for being. Starting after my birthday in November, my #1, most important, all-consuming goal will be PROFESSIONAL WRITER.
I wouldn’t bet against me. And a big part of what makes writing this blog fun is making YOU impossible to bet against also.
So go visit the website version of my book, How to Come Alive.
Get ready for an exciting NEW level of awesome in your life.
And in my next post I’ll dig into the hows and whats-its of my new perfect shape success.
Just know this — my focus has made my current life more exciting than ever before, and I’ll do everything in my power to help you make this the defining moment of your life too.
My friend Jill Hartmann-Roberts recently asked me for some info about the health and fitness things I’ve been excited about in the past couple of years and I thought, ‘Why not share this info with all of you?’
First of all, know that whatever health, body, mental or other challenges you’re facing, I completely believe good food, exercise, and giving yourself peaceful, quiet time can improve your life. Some people have problems that keep them from the activities mentioned here, but most of us (thankfully) don’t — and even if you do, there is probably something, even just looking out a window, that could improve the quality of your life. As always, you may want to talk to your doctor before making any of these big changes (he’d probably love to hear some good news).
Tiny bit of backstory — I grew up loving fried foods, sweets, and thought I was a ‘meat & potatoes’ girl. I was also significantly heavier than I am now. This change did not come all at once but by slowly starting to add in more and more good habits over the years. So start small but be excited that your happiest, healthiest body may still be ahead of you. My dad’s 59 and he just spent 8 and 1/2 hours kayaking on a river — you may say he has good genes but he also eats the healthiest and exercises more than anyone I know. Where do you want your body to be at 59?
So, here’s what I’ve been doing in the last couple of years to take my body to the next level (this may be a little advanced for some people so remember that even half measures will get you going in the right direction) —
Cutting Back on Sugar
These days, I don’t really keep anything with refined sugar in the house. When I want to make an exception (like a shake), I have to go out and buy it. I’ve really been working to replace my desire for refined sugars with natural sugars like fruits, fruit juice, date-related products, and sometimes coconut sugar (Trader Joes has it and it’s pretty good in coffee). Read my full post about sugar here. Most of this new focus came about last year when my sister watched Sugar is a Toxin, a talk by Dr. Robert Lustig that changed the way we think about sugar’s place in our lives.
Now, I love sweets, and I’ll allow myself at least one hard-core exception a week (chocolate torte anyone?) but I want to remove the daily need for sugar from my life. And doing that is also one of the best ways to avoid joining the heartbreakingly large number of diabetics in this country. The amount of sugar we’re encouraged to eat everyday is f-ed up and we need take the power back into our own hands and live more like our grandparents did — when sweets were a rare treat. Also read — Food Rules. It’s wonderful.
Walking & Cycling
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, I think walking is a fantastic way to get healthier. Try to get out for thirty minutes and least five times a week.
But cycling, now there’s the gold mine. If you’re able physically to cycle, even just a little ways, you can find relaxation, joy, and a great, fast way to lose weight and get in shape. As my sister has said, ‘You don’t see any fat cyclists’ (or at least, not for long).
But if you can’t/don’t like to go cycling, remember the important thing is to just do some exercise you do enjoy more. It needs to be done often, and be fun and challenging to whatever level you’re at now — but never hurt yourself.
Juicing & Fasting
Juicing is a great way to get a lot of vitamins fast and can give your body a break from the hard work of digesting food (yes, your intestines would like a vacation too). The film Fat, Sick & Nearly Dead really turned my sister and I on to the power of juicing — you can change your body in ways you’d never believe and it’s never too late to get better. Whether it’s just a breakfast replacement or a longer ‘juice fast’, it can change your relationship to food forever. A juicer costs around a hundred dollars but you can buy used ones (or get a friend to loan you one to try it) — and either way, the cost is probably less than one month of the blood pressure pills you may have to take down the road if you don’t get healthier.
A word about fasting: done right it’s not dangerous, unhealthy, or harmful. Fasting has been a religious practise for thousand of years. Fasting can mean a ‘full fast’ where you might drink only water or consume nothing at all (best done for a short while [like a day] and on a day you’re off work and can lie down and rest often). It can also be a ‘partial fast’ where you might still drink water, juice, and even eat a few fruits and veggies. Sarah and I have done a 14 day partial fast and I’d love to do it again. Just remember that you will probably ‘detox’ somewhere around day two and have a headache for a couple of hours. This is natural and healthy and afterward you won’t have that happen again for the rest of your fast.
It’s also important to ‘break’ the fast at the end of the time and slowly start eating good foods again. Remember: you are not dieting or starving yourself, you are giving your body a break for a specific amount of time. Richard Hittleman’s Weight Control Through Yoga contains instructions for the first fast I ever did.
My friend Jill said she’d heard me mention this but didn’t really know anything about it. I was exactly in that spot last September but I believe Paleo is one of the reasons I’m on track to be my healthiest ever by the end of this year.
In a nutshell, the Paleo (or paleolithic) diet is a return to what people ate for our entire history up until we discovered agriculture. From an evolutionary point of view, our bodies haven’t begun to integrate things like wheat, legumes (like peanuts) and dairy into our diet, which is why some people have allergies and others may still (unknowingly) have their bodies fighting against minor negative reactions their wholes lives. And fast food and refined sugars are even harder for our bodies to use to keep us healthy. Exercise is also a major component of being Paleo.
To help you get more started —
And a basic rundown —
And I wouldn’t get too caught up in buying only grass-fed beef — I started with regular. Also, almost every veggie’s good — excluding regular potatoes (sweet potatoes are good for you).
That about sums up my recent adventures in health. I feel better than I ever have, am improving all the time, and can’t wait to see what I’ll be doing when I’m 59! Take care of your body and you’ll free your spirit up for some amazing adventures.
Now, I had never really heard of the Paleo Diet (and I don’t ever do ‘diets’ in the way most Americans think of them, BTW) until about a week ago.
My sister Sarah said she’d been reading great things about it online and we should try it. And it’s changed my life in ONE WEEK.
At its heart Paleo is about taking us back to eating the things we have for almost all of our human history, the things our bodies was made to consume. The idea is that, even as needs and population growth required us to become agriculturalists, our bodies have not changed. Our systems simply aren’t made to perfectly digest grains, legumes, refined sugars, and dairy. Man is the only creature on Earth that drinks milk after infancy. It is about eating real, simple food, mostly from home, so don’t think you can eat ‘MacDonald’s ‘chicken nuggets’ all the time and get great results. Read the websites and start walking or cycling too.
So I challenge you to just try it for the next seven days. I was a total skeptic, but here’s what I’ve learned —
Ten Things Paleo Has Taught Me in One Week
- I’m never going back. It’s a shock to say, but I feel like I’ve fallen face-first into the Fountain of Youth. This is too good not to make it a permanent part of my life.
- I didn’t know I could have this much energy. I’m jumping, bopping, and skipping around like a five-year-old.
- When I don’t feel exhausted all the time, my mood is a lot better. Tasks I usually hated (like cleaning the bathrooms where I work) can’t touch me now.
- It truly is a ‘natural’ high. I feel buzzed all the time in the best way.
- I don’t really get hungry. Because I’m eating eggs, meats, veggies, great smoothies, etc — I’m never starving myself or denying myself seconds.
- Eggs and meat can be good for you. I was still thinking of old warnings but the new research shows that lean meat, cooked in a light way, is great for you. Ditto eggs. Research it for yourself.
- I feel like I’m going to make it to the life of my dreams. Feeling this good makes everything seem possible.
- 12 mile cycle rides feel like nothing. I really feel like I have as much energy at the end as at the beginning.
- I don’t love ‘junk food’. I really use to think I did, but now, getting the nutrients I need, I start to look at that stuff less and less as food, and more as some sort of industrial waste — which, if you think about it, is kind of what corn syrup is.
- I need to keep being open-minded. I really thought this was a bad, and possibly dangerous, idea. I mean, we must eat grains for a reason right? And I never thought of myself with any ‘allergies’ to wheat or dairy. But this has truly been a transformative experience — and I’m only one week in!
If the Paleo diet sounds like a lot of change at once, do what I did (unintentionally): start with just removing 95%-100% of refined sugar from your diet. That’s what I did two months ago and I’m sure it made the Paleo Diet easier.
You CAN have all the energy you dream of, and you can enjoy your bacon and eggs while you do it! Now I’m off for a 15 mile cycle ride!